Bicara Hati

Welcome to Bicara Hati where we talk about heart, feelings and all those lovey dovey yucky stuffs here.
Its not February yet but thats not gonna stop us from talking about love , and for this infamous topic, we specially invited our stars for unknown show that flopped- Bicara Jantung, Tiffany! *clapclap*

Tiffany: Thanks for inviting me to what this show called again?

MC: Bicara Hati.

Tiffany: Is it like your heart talking or something? and to say that this program sounded a lot like my show Bicara Jantung. Are you trying to plagiarize here?

MC: *laugh nervously* Errr.. Ok forget about our unexisted show name. Lets talk about you instead. So Tiffany or should we call you ppani?, we heard that you get into a fight with your significant other, Taetae. Is it true?

Tiffany: *eye-smile* where you get that from? we.. we are happy! *nervous*

MC: We heard from inside source that both of you stop talking for 5 days. Is it true?

Tiffany: 7 days already if today counted.

MC: How come? As people claimed, you guys like the happiest couple. Mind to share the reason of it?

Tiffany: *sigh* Its not really a fight actually. We never yelling or go all crazy to each other.

MC: Then how is it? You guys silently send death threat through a blood letter?

Tiffany: *rolls eyes* It more to the situation where she get mad at me, give me silence treatment and i felt sad and bitter and both of us not talking anymore. Its always like that.

MC: Then who come first to apologize?

Tiffany: Depends on situation. Usually I'm the one who come first, apologize, begging, coax her with sweet words so i can see her smile again. But everytime, no matter whose fault is it, I will be the one who raise white flag first. Its like a habit.

MC: Its okay, the one who surrender doesnt mean they the loser. But how come she keeps getting mad at you? and everytime you need to take care of her feelings. Do you think its fair for you?

Tiffany: Totally unfair! The fight, its always start with her. Always! For ones, i never say something negative to her. I just say normal things in conversation but suddenly she's the one who get upset and boom! silence treatment. demmm i really hate that cold attitude. *almost cry* when i asked her what i did wrong she never talk to me. how im supposed to fix my flaws if she dont want to point it out. Everytime we having a fight, i will try to convice to her to communicate. But she always refuse to talk. She want to keep all inside and dont want to open up with me. For God sake, we have been together for 3 years, and still not improved in that part. Good communication is the key for success relationship, right?

MC: *give tissues* Toitally agreed. Most couple stay for a long time because they share what they felt. They communicate. I think its related with her personality?

Tiffany: Yes, she the quiet type of person so i cannot force her to talk all day, but at least talk to me. Is it too much to ask for?

MC: maybe you the last person she want to talk with while she upset?

Tiffany: Maybe.

MC: this current fight, is it also start with her?

Tiffany: Same cycle. I said something i think common, she get mad. Welcome silence treatment. Oh she even called me annoying. Am i that annoying?

MC: Sometimes.

Tiffany: Thought so. Thats why i didnt take into heart. I just want us to back like normal.

MC: Usually how long the fight last for?

Tiffany: Depends on how fast I try to win her heart back. Normally 2-3 days.

MC: then why this time it lead to 7 days? a week! *shock* you didnt try to coax her back like usual?

Tiffany: I dont know..

MC: I guess you already tired with the fight cycle isnt it?

Tiffany: Kinda. I hope this time she's the one who try to reach me first.

MC: so far?

Tiffany: Nothing. She even removed our picture in her dp whatsapp. - which i found very sad cause i edit that with all of my heart.. and her latest status on wechat implied that we already breakup. *sigh heavily*

MC: What if you guys truly breakup? *shockface*

Tiffany: Please dont say like that! >,<

MC: it can be if both of you stay silent like this. What if even after 14 days she still not contacting you? What if she did nothing to repair your relationship?

Tiffany: If thats happen, i guess im not that important for her.. Or I simply put away all my pain and bitterness and just text her back. Like always.

MC: I'm sorry. I think eveytime both of you fight, she's too ego to admit her feelings, and you too cheap to keep begging and begging *laugh*

Tiffany: *laugh* Yeah im such a weaker when it comes to her.

MC: Still we all know for sure that you guys love each other too much. Just dont let this stupid fight to stop this lovely relationship.

Tiffany: Thanks.

MC: Any last words? To your taetae maybe?

Tiffany: *look straight to camera* Taetae, please text me back! I will waiting for you.

MC: Do you think she will read this post?

Tiffany: No. No one actually read your blog *laugh*

MC: So true! *laugh with mix emotions*


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Tiffany: Heyy how dare you used me as bad example for the sake of advertisement! *bring torch and fork*

MC: *run away*


K bye see you later!

xoxo